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What are the top three things you find most attractive in the opposite sex?
For me its:
1. The eyes...they say alot about a person
2. Intelligence...if they cannot challenge me and we can't learn from eachother there is nothing there
3. The chest! I love a guy with a nice chest!
SiC-0
08-23-2007, 06:45 PM
i like eyes...Face, and MUST be smart!..Also Tits and ass help too....
o2lily
08-23-2007, 06:52 PM
for me in ANY sex
PERSONALITY - you can be hot as sin but if your personality/interests dont mesh with mine, I'm gone.
Inteligence - If you cant speak from facts or any form of actual knowledge, I dont even want to know you.
Eyes - If I can melt and you have the two above I am happy.
I learned some stuff just doesnt matter but that does.
for me in ANY sex
PERSONALITY - you can be hot as sin but if your personality/interests dont mesh with mine, I'm gone.
Inteligence - If you cant speak from facts or any form of actual knowledge, I dont even want to know you.
Eyes - If I can melt and you have the two above I am happy.
I learned some stuff just doesnt matter but that does.
What if they only have one eye?:black eye:
SiC-0
08-23-2007, 06:55 PM
I have 3
o2lily
08-23-2007, 07:09 PM
well if u got one eye then it better be a damned good looking one!!!
or u better be great in bed or really fecking smart and fun TO BE WITH!!!
SiC-0
08-23-2007, 07:17 PM
What if your both?
o2lily
08-23-2007, 07:21 PM
then im happy :D
SiC-0
08-23-2007, 07:25 PM
So its all about you now?........
R1Gurl
08-23-2007, 07:27 PM
Things that I love most about my man:
Personality
Sense of humor
Intelligence
The physical things that I noticed first about my man..
Athletic build
Hands (I love strong calloused hands)
Jaw line complete w/ 5 o'clock shadow
Ah the list could go on forever, but I'm limited.
netherl
08-23-2007, 07:30 PM
1. Sense of Humor really matters to me.
2. Physical shape, meaning must work out every day like me.
3. Personality / Career goals = tied for #3!
o2lily
08-23-2007, 07:42 PM
So its all about you now?........
hey man if they are happy being with me then I do all I can to make them happy :)
See imma giver, I get happy from giving and seeing how happy it makes em...altho I DO appreciate it when I am appreciated for my efforts and spoiled a little from time to time :in_love:
Its ALWAYS about me hehe bc when its about me, its about you too :)
SiC-0
08-23-2007, 07:44 PM
Ummm how do i respond to that? My woman is the same way..But i do what i can for her.
R1Gurl
08-23-2007, 07:47 PM
See imma giver, I get happy from giving and seeing how happy it makes em...altho I DO appreciate it when I am appreciated for my efforts and spoiled a little from time to time :in_love:Amen to that, I get great pleasure out of the pleasure I give to my bf.
....no you pervs...I'm not talkin oral pleasure either. :)
<------ Sits in the corner:green:
o2lily
08-23-2007, 07:49 PM
Yeah only reason im single right now is bc the guys I have been meeting lately are selfish or just plain stupid. street smarts are cool, so are book smarts but if u are newspaper or parent smart and have no formed opinion and side of your OWN then please keepa walkin...
SiC-0
08-23-2007, 07:53 PM
What if im on a skateboard?
R1Gurl
08-23-2007, 07:54 PM
Then may you hit a light pole as you skate past.....
:lolat:
SiC-0
08-23-2007, 07:57 PM
why would i do that?
R1Gurl
08-23-2007, 07:59 PM
Cuz you'll be busy checkin out that ass...:dntknw: and won't see it comin.
Dapper
08-24-2007, 02:21 PM
Attitude (includes, but not limited to: Integrity, Giving, Flexibility, humor, respect)
Body (must be attractive)
Low maintenance
R1Gurl
08-24-2007, 02:23 PM
Wow you don't want much for nothin do you dapper?
Dapper
08-24-2007, 02:26 PM
What do you mean? I won't be affectionate with Shamo
R1Gurl
08-24-2007, 02:56 PM
:lol: just bustin your balls man.
SiC-0
08-24-2007, 03:06 PM
What do you mean? I won't be affectionate with Shamo
Why not?:lazy:
M-18Taser
08-24-2007, 04:01 PM
Here are mine:
Eyes - show you who they are
Smile - hmmm kinda describes its self....
Personality/humor - If ya can't have fun, then ya ain't livin!
R1Gurl
08-24-2007, 05:39 PM
Ok, I'm comin clean the thing I liked best about my man was his manhood :) Who really cares about any of that other crap anyway...seriously?
:lol:
o2lily
08-24-2007, 06:23 PM
yeah but he didnt walk around with his *ahem* hanging out LOL
my ex was great in bed perfect size - not too big, not small, & knew how to work it.
Honestly he wasnt hot.
He had a pot belly, wore glasses, was a gaming freak...
wanna know what got me?? His mouth.
We were friends for bout a month or two hanging out at his place one night watching movies. During a break I took down the sofa (it was one of those foldable ones not a futon but like adjustable! really nifty!) Well it isnt comfortable to sit on forever so we paused the movie, went out for him to smoke - we were drinking, I trusted him (some people u can just trust that quick) n e ways we come back in, fill our glasses, I take down the sofa and lay down and start the movie. He laid behind me...ok cool w/e he didnt do anything for like 20 min.
Then out of nowhere he starts to nibble on my neck...
THAT WAS IT! I was done, melted & his from that moment on.
Best relationship I ever had. Unfortunately we werent ment for eachother and the relationship ran its course, we grew bored of it but ended on great terms. Still friends & everything too.
Being with him taught me alot. Specially bout how looks dont matter.
Ok, I'm comin clean the thing I liked best about my man was his manhood :) Who really cares about any of that other crap anyway...seriously?
:lol:
Fa Sho LOL.
My man is the BEST...:boff:
Twain
08-25-2007, 11:42 AM
Ok, my top three. In no particular order and subject to change without notice.
Hair....I don't care, long or short, dark or light, styled, hippish or just braided everyday, some women just have great hair.
Passion....I don't really care what your passionate about, just be passionate about something or even several things.
Smart....she does not have to be a female version of Einstein, but a woman that is intellectually my equal is a must.
Ok, my top three. In no particular order and subject to change without notice.
Hair....I don't care, long or short, dark or light, styled, hippish or just braided everyday, some women just have great hair.
Passion....I don't really care what your passionate about, just be passionate about something or even several things.
Smart....she does not have to be a female version of Einstein, but a woman that is intellectually my equal is a must.
Ladies snatch this one up!!! :D Awesome qualities!! (I have all 3) hahahaha
R1Gurl
08-25-2007, 11:59 AM
Ladies snatch this one up!!! :D Awesome qualities!! (I have all 3) hahahahaAgreed!! Awesome qualities!
I think I have all three as well, but my bf would be a better judge of that than I would. I'm often to critical of myself.
Agreed!! Awesome qualities!
I think I have all three as well, but my bf would be a better judge of that than I would. I'm often to critical of myself.
BF???Whats that...i think my SO died....:wallbash:
R1Gurl
08-25-2007, 12:20 PM
Maybe you should call out a search party, hold a mirror under his nose make sure he's still breathing.
Maybe you should call out a search party, hold a mirror under his nose make sure he's still breathing.
I could go start up his bike...i bet he would wake up fast!
Dapper
08-25-2007, 04:50 PM
Why not?:lazy:
weightaphobia
neeonazi
08-25-2007, 05:03 PM
Hmmm.... too hard to narrow it down to just three....
PHYSICAL attributes...
- Smile.... I'm a sucker for a great smile.... *swoon*
- Chest.... nothing sexier than a great chest you can snuggle up against
- Legs... I love muscular, athletic legs... can't stand chicken legs on a man!!
PERSONALITY attributes...
- Passion... there is something really sexy about a man when he's talking really enthusiastically about something he's passionate about. Doesn't matter if it's sports, his car, his dog, or his work -- it's the zest with which he speaks about it that's attractive
- Intelligence... need I say more? Stupid men (like stupid women) are *yawn* BO-RING!
- Heart... kind, considerate, caring, gentle... all those nice guy qualities have to be in there somewhere. :)
RedRidingHood
08-25-2007, 07:04 PM
Ladies snatch this one up!!! :D Awesome qualities!! (I have all 3) hahahaha
lol. I should put that I'm still looking for a bike, and a GOOD man ;)
RedRidingHood
08-25-2007, 07:14 PM
In a male companion I would look for:
1. Chivalry! I know it's still out there, I KNOW there's a guy out there who doesn't mind holding a door for a lady, holding her hand in public, not being afraid to show affection to her in public (doesn't mean bang her public) lol...but really. I'm not saying ALL the time..but it's nice to show your lady these very simple gestures! If I would find a guy like that, a TRUE romantic..HELL YEA!
2. Eyes. I'm a sucker for guys with eyes that sparkle. It doesn't matter what color eithier..but I"m just REALLY into eyes. They are the windows to the soul, and there's nothing HOTTER than starring into his eyes while he talks or kisses..or wtf ever. lol!!
3. Intelligence. For f's sake..have at least HALF a brain! Guys that don't THINK before they speak, total turnoff! Educated guys are sexxy, no doubt about it!
1HawtClarke
08-25-2007, 07:17 PM
Oh let me see three things...
1- Arms. It's HAWT when you have a guy with some nice arms to hold you. You don't gotta be ripped, but strong arms are a must.
2- I like manly men. I guess a masculine Jawline. I don't do pretty boys.
3- Sense of humor. I can look at you all day, but If I get bored what's the point. There are alot of good looking & entertaining men on T.V.
Twain
08-25-2007, 07:47 PM
In a male companion I would look for:
1. Chivalry! I know it's still out there, I KNOW there's a guy out there who doesn't mind holding a door for a lady, holding her hand in public, not being afraid to show affection to her in public (doesn't mean bang her public) lol...but really. I'm not saying ALL the time..but it's nice to show your lady these very simple gestures! If I would find a guy like that, a TRUE romantic..HELL YEA!
2. Eyes. I'm a sucker for guys with eyes that sparkle. It doesn't matter what color eithier..but I"m just REALLY into eyes. They are the windows to the soul, and there's nothing HOTTER than starring into his eyes while he talks or kisses..or wtf ever. lol!!
3. Intelligence. For f's sake..have at least HALF a brain! Guys that don't THINK before they speak, total turnoff! Educated guys are sexxy, no doubt about it!
Well I gots 2 out of three.
Dapper
08-25-2007, 09:00 PM
In a male companion I would look for:
1. Chivalry! I know it's still out there, I KNOW there's a guy out there who doesn't mind holding a door for a lady, -snip-Courteousness still exists, but some folks just don't appreciate. When I'm holding the door, all I want in return is the simple, 'thanks'. If I don't hear 'it'. I'll say, You're welcome! I will typically hear, thanks, but some people just look at me funny.
holding her hand in public, not being afraid to show affection to her in public (doesn't mean bang her public) lol...but really. I'm not saying ALL the time..but it's nice to show your lady these very simple gestures! If I would find a guy like that, a TRUE romantic..HELL YEA!
Showing affection in public doesn't fall under Chivalry, for it lacks class. That's why I will extend the elbow for the lady to hang onto, showing class. Imagine a 6'+ man with a 5' lady, the reach alone to hold hands is not meant to be. I refer the consistent public affection as the Hollywood syndrome. For the silly stuff only works out in the movies or daytime soap operas.
TitMouse77
08-25-2007, 11:18 PM
WOW after being married for 8 years it is hard to think about this. :)
1. Knows who they are and where they are going. I hate a person who pretends to be what they are not. I love an original!!!
2. Carnal understanding of the opposite sex.
3. Compassion, you can be a tough guy all day but if it really hurts emotionally cry.
SiC-0
08-25-2007, 11:30 PM
I think 3 things are too narrow...There are ALOT of things i love about my woman!
R1Gurl
08-26-2007, 01:10 AM
How sweet!!
As for PDA it's not really necessary, but occassionally it's nice.
What are the top three things you find most attractive in the opposite sex?
For me its:
1. The eyes...they say alot about a person
2. Intelligence...if they cannot challenge me and we can't learn from eachother there is nothing there
3. The chest! I love a guy with a nice chest!
I thought you were into guys with hairy feet and asses!!!!
I thought you were into guys with hairy feet and asses!!!!
You trying to make me GAG?
neeonazi
08-28-2007, 05:13 PM
I thought you were into guys with hairy feet and asses!!!!
Don't you know "feet" is an "F" word around here? LOL... You can't discuss those-appendages-at-the-ends-of-ones-legs when talking to Twinks. ;) You'll gross her out!!
(TWINKS -- I have an idea.... add "feet" to the language filter on the site... :lol: )
Don't you know "feet" is an "F" word around here? LOL... You can't discuss those-appendages-at-the-ends-of-ones-legs when talking to Twinks. ;) You'll gross her out!!
(TWINKS -- I have an idea.... add "feet" to the language filter on the site... :lol: )
Ohhh Good Idea!!!!!!!!!
Feet Feet Feet Feet Feet Feet Feet Feet
Melalicious
09-01-2007, 07:03 PM
Feet Feet Feet Feet Feet Feet Feet Feet
Yea I agree, they are gross... I only thing I like about them is when I am getting a pedicure.
So 3 things hmmm
Physical:
1. I love me some Blue eyes....
2. So nice arms & chest to rub on minus alot of hair. Doesnt have to be built but not bird like.
3. And strong enough to pick up my motorcycle if I drop it.
So the other stuff:
1. Required - Sense of humor.....
2. Have it together...
3. Know how to treat a woman
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